Donor Education

Tzedakah (Righteous Giving) | L’dor V’dor (From Generation to Generation)
Children learn kindness and generosity by watching it in action and understanding why it matters. Research shows that when parents give and explain why, their children are much more likely to follow their example.

Tell stories about your own giving. Which experiences brought you joy or deep satisfaction? Was it seeing a tangible difference you helped create? The sense of living your values? A relationship your gift sparked or strengthened? These reflections help children understand that giving is not just about money, it’s about meaning.

B’Tzelem Elohim (In God’s Image)
Help children recognize that every person is created B’tzelem Elohim, in the image of God, and deserves dignity and care. Share stories, visit local nonprofits, or volunteer together so they can see compassion in action. Ask each family member what they’d like to change or preserve in your community or the world. Are they motivated by addressing injustice or by supporting good work already underway?

Dedicate a night of Hanukkah to giving, prepare gifts for community members during Purim, or reflect on freedom and responsibility together at Passover. Set aside funds for giving year-round as a reminder that giving is an ongoing part of Jewish life.

Areyvut (Mutual Responsibility) | Kehillah (Community)
Jewish tradition teaches that Kol Yisrael arevim zeh bazeh, meaning all of Israel is responsible for one another. Help your children see that giving links your family to the larger Jewish community, whether in San Diego, Israel, or around the world.

Ma’asim Tovim (Good Deeds in Action)
When children see how their actions make a difference, generosity feels real. Deliver food to a neighbor, bake for a local shelter, or visit an organization your family supports. Experiencing kindness firsthand helps them understand that even small actions can have a big impact.

Bechirah Chofshit (Free Will)
Empower children by offering them choices in how they give, whether through volunteering, creating, or donating money. Provide age-appropriate funds for them to distribute and increase the amount as they grow. Trusting them to decide fosters ownership and encourages a lifelong habit of thoughtful giving.

Avodah Shebalev (Service of the Heart) | Tikkun Olam (Repairing the World)
Encourage your children to connect volunteering and giving with what they love, such as music, art, sports, nature, or helping others.